Well WTF part 2 turned out wildly different from part 1. I was prepared for more talk about donor eggs or embryo adoption, but what I got was a plan for one more cycle! The RE that our doc talked to thinks that we still have a shot with my eggs. He thinks we need to push my ovaries harder to maximize the number of eggs retrieved. Last cycle I had several smaller follicles that didn't quite catch up, this cycle we are aiming to get those follicles up to a mature size.
We will also do genetic testing on the embryos if we have enough. My clinic offers CGH testing which is done on day 5 blastocysts. My doctor doesn't recommend CGH unless we have 4 or more good quality embryos to test. If we don't have enough embryos, then we can either just transfer 1 or 2 and hoping at least one is normal, or banking the embryos and trying another fresh cycle.